Sometimes focusing on a problem is the answer; you want to understand how you got to that point.  Other times, it’s indistinguishable from whining and nobody wants that.  On that note – please enjoy this article from Zenhabits.

How to Stop Acting Like Such a Big Baby

But then, I don’t want to forget what I’ve learned because I want to repeat my mistakes as seldomly as possible.  So then I found this:

How to learn from your mistakes

And because The Lady had requested I post this some place that I could find – here is Why smart people defend bad ideas